One
of such small things is getting too comfortable too early especially if
you have just recently found your new love and think that feelings are
mutual. At this point falling all over your lover and revealing
yourself completely by saying "I love you" and similar things whenever
you feel like it might be a total mistake because your loved is
possibly not that much in love with you yet and might be not ready for
getting into serious relationship too fast.
Thing about long
lasting relationships is that slower they develop longer they will
last. One of biggest mistakes many do with their love life is rushing
things and getting too excited when something great happens. So if you
have rushed into relationship too quickly and were dumped before even
all the fun started then it's certainly not worth wandering how to win an ex back since you never actually had any serious relationship in the first place.
But
if you were together for quite long time and things developed quite
slowly then most probably reason for breakup is loosing interest or
spice in your love life. Routine is your biggest enemy in such case and
getting into it is quite easy as keeping it fun requires some
creativity. Good news is that in this case you have more chances
winning your ex back as you just need to figure out how to return the
fun you had with your lover.
Try to remember what initially
brought you both together when you had your first dates and what kept
it going. For getting ex back you will need to repeat these situations
and recreate feelings you both had during these encounters although it
might be hard to even setup at first. So it's important to have your
last meeting on a positive note and then give your lover some time to
forget about any negative feelings that lead to this breakup. Pushing
at this point would ruin any chances of getting back your ex.
Also
try to figure out what common interests you have and especially pay
attention to what different interests you had. Quite often routine in
relationships comes in when you don't have common interests that would
be fun for both of you. And if you have too few common interests
working on learning how fun can be interests of your lover might be the
turning point in your romance.
