If this is something you have ever experienced then I
have great news for you. There is a way to stop such situations
happening again and if done correctly even get your ex back.
Possibly even any of those ex lovers that rejected you at some point
and you might just need to decide which one best choice. In most cases
you will favor most recent romance partner which is quite obvious
choice but let me tell you that chances are much greater if you try
someone who you haven't seen for a while and those negative feelings
you ex had at the time of breakup might be forgotten already and proper
approach could lead you back in very good relationship.
But
before understanding how to get your ex back first you need to
understand why this keeps happening to you and what to do about this.
Here are few things that you should avoid doing if you are trying to
get your ex back on your own or by advice of your friends:
1. No
begging - Don't even think about this one and it includes trying to
call or any contact at all. Right now your presence for your ex will
just decrease your chances of restoring a relationship and especially
begging will be turning off even more that will kill any future chances
for getting ex back.
2. No promises about changing - This might
seem the obvious solution at first to ask your ex what exactly went
wrong and promise that you will not be doing that anymore but in
reality even discussing this will make things worse let alone solving
the problem. Actually such behaviour will make your value as lover even
lower in eyes of your ex.
3. No ultimatums - This possibly could
be the worst mistake usually done before the breakup if you engage your
ex and give an ultimatum like choose me or that other thing you are so
obsessed with because of which you don't have time for me anymore. If
at this point your ex didn't yet have courage to breakup with you then
this is perfect reason to just do it and make your chances of fixing
things miserable.
There are many more ways and reasons that you
can recognize and use to learn how to get your ex back and it doesn't
matter if it's your girlfriend you recently lost or your boyfriend that
possibly found new person more interesting than you.
What I found very helpful was "Win Back Love"
ebook that I found on the internet. It also included checklist of
possible reasons why relationships go wrong to help analyzing my
breakup reasons, how to plan my comeback and
prevent any future situations that might cause another breakup.
